Life is Full of Challenges You Can Turn Into Opportunities
Do you hide when you see a challenge coming up? Instead, you can take that challenge and make it into a great opportunity to do something important. Challenges help to shape who you are and what you do with your life, so face them and get through them to experience the truly fulfilling life you crave.
You'll be a stronger person for taking charge of your life. Prove to yourself that all you really need is your abilities, as they're sufficient for the task. You can face and conquer anything, provided you refuse to give up. Even when things don't go your way, you can learn from the experience and still press forward toward your victory.
Ways to Take Control of Your Life
Try these techniques to help you become truly in charge of your life:
If you follow your heart and take steps toward what you want, taking charge of where you're going will be easier than you think. Acquiring this control may take time, but you can start working on it right away.
When you begin taking charge of your life, people may disagree with you and challenge your direction. Remind yourself that you have the right to your own life, without interference from others, even if they mean well.
Show those who challenge your new direction your happiness and love. When they see the smile on your face and the spring in your step, they'll know that you're following your heart and chasing after the dreams that matter to you.
This program changed me more than any other program ever has!When I began writing my book, Home Worthy: How to Buy Your Dream Home With Ease I was deep into research when I stumbled upon a YouTube video where a man named Sadhguru discussed the topic I had been researching. I heard this man speak and I felt that the information was so complex in it’s simplicity that I was compelled to write down his words. I started searching for more of his discussions and soon became a big fan of his.
I learned about his offering, Inner Engineering and decided to take the online course. Once completed, I attended his two day Inner Engineering Completion and the experience was far beyond any of my expectations.
In those two days I experienced a transformation. Look, I don’t say this lightly. I’ve been reading and experiencing self-help programs for over 25 years and this one is different. Every day I practise a specific exercise taught by Sadhguru during the 2-day live event and it continues to transform me.
The Inner Engineering online course is FREE for all front line workers for a limited time, and is half-priced for all others. Check it out. I implore you to follow up with Inner Engineering Completion (2-day event) and when you are done please let me know. I’d love to hear about your experience and share a bit about mine with you.
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The Stats are out!
Even though activity is down 67% year over year, April 2020 from April 2019, values only dropped by 0.1% (no, that's not a typo!)....one tenth of a percent.
Many people have this question on their mind, "should I invest in real estate?" For those of you who are nervous to take the step into home ownership or investment, perhaps you will find this information encouraging. I know home owners will love to know this info too!
I believe in the power of property ownership and the stats show that about 75% of Canadian wealth is in property.
Is it time to make your move? Let's talk about it.
Have a wonderful day! If you woke up today, SMILE! It's the best way to start a day and set yourself up for joy.
Sandra Rinomato shares the tools she has been using to manage her mindset over the last several weeks of lockdown and uncertainty. She shares how she used these tools to double her income with little effort, got her dream office and more... and how you can manifest anything you want to.
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After the devastating "Great Depression" many men and women went from being average to becoming multi-millionaires, even billionaires in today's money. You can too! Times are changing, seize the opportunities at hand and create your best life. NOW is the time, don't delay.
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I've been working on my book since October 2018 and it's almost ready to publish. Awesome right? Then a thought came to my mind, "is releasing the book during these times of uncertainty and pandemic insensitive to what people are going through?". Should I wait to publish the book when things are better out there, I wondered.
I put the question out to a few authors and my mentor to determine whether this was an inspired thought but they said that it was my own paradigm that was creating negativity and holding me back. I wasn't convinced.
Afterward I had been feeling agitated and when I paused in awareness of the feeling I knew right then that I had a false belief that wasn't aligned with my inner self.
I took some private time to release all judgement and become present and before I knew it a calmness and joy came to me. I was joyful because the book was created as a tool to help people become aware of and overcome their fears and objections, their paradigms about buying a home on their own. I wrote the book to give people hope as hope will chase away fear. I describe how they can figure out what they truly want, and how to get it. Really, the book is less about buying a home than it is about creating awareness, developing confidence and going for our dreams.
I teach people that the fears we face during a stressful time like buying a first home are illusions that we create in our own minds and that we can overcome them simply by shedding light on them, becoming aware of them. When my son was small I used to teach him to face his fears. I wanted him to build the habit of crushing fear so that nothing would ever stop him from creating the life of his dreams and I want that for all of us.
I will continue to do what I love to do, to help people by sharing my knowledge and experience to help them gain a new perspective and to grow. By doing this I grow too, and there is a cycle of contribution.
We create our own reality through our thoughts, so if we expect things to go wrong they will. We can't control our thoughts but we can choose which ones we dwell on. Let's be aware of our expectations and let go of them. Let's live in the present moment. We don't know what will happen so let's manage our expectations so that they are neither too high nor too low. When we release all expectations we become aware of the solution by being in tune with our true selves and we are open to allowing good things to happen.
You can choose to allow the news to keep you down by watching it all day long, or you can learn what you need to know and then carry on with becoming the best you can be and live your best life. When negative thoughts come in we can just replace them thoughts that we CHOOSE to think. It sounds easy , and it is. Truly, it is easy. You cannot control the thoughts that come in so don't bother wasting energy chastising yourself for thinking them. Just stop them in their tracks and replace them with good thoughts.
Peggy McColl has provided us with so many free tools to help us focus on the thoughts we choose to think. One of my favourites is the Power Life Script. I find it very helpful to listen to a very animated and excited recording of me reading it. Mine is currently 14 minutes long and I listen to it many times each day.
Here is a link to Peggy's Manifestation Tool Box which is currently being offered for FREE:
I hope you will take advantage of one or all of these FREE tools, and pass the link around.
Here's an excerpt from Home Worthy by Sandra Rinomato:
You cannot succeed in buying real estate in Toronto if you are wishy washy because it’s far too challenging! It’s very competitive, each situation is different, there is no cookie-cutter process and you must be determined to achieve the goal of home ownership or you will fail. There are too many decisions to make, too many naysayers whose opinions will convince you to alter your course and oftentimes you would be forced to make a decision on the fly with no time to deliberate. I mean it’s tough! So to sit there and say you aren’t sure if you want to buy I know what the answer is going to be. If there is a shadow of a doubt about wanting to buy real estate in Toronto you’d be wasting your time if you tried in that state of mind.
Lily’s motivation was to be on her own, which was already outside the box thinking for her. She did not have the motivation or desire to buy a home at that time and therefore she did not have the goal to become a homeowner. I wanted to prevent her from failing because that one failure could become the reason why she would hold herself back for years to come, and not just with real estate but with every aspect of her life. She was prepared to take baby steps, which is totally fine. She wanted to play small and that’s not a problem; she could go at her own pace or perhaps she would not play at all. For the average person, hassles and obstacles are good enough reasons to play small or not at all.
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It's ok if you aren't ready to commit to buying real estate. One thing I really want to stress is that if you have a goal you have to commit to it. If you aren't committed, if you are just kind of thinking about it, or you are going "see if you can do it" chances are you won't. Lily had her own reasons why she wasn't ready to commit to the goal of real estate, like so many other people do. Some of those reasons are legit, others are not. The others are simply things we've made up in our heads. When we let those made-up things hold us back we lose. Every single time. So let's start a conversation about goal setting. It doesn't even have to be about real estate, or it could be all about real estate. It's up to you. Don't let fear or false beliefs hold you back from living your best life.
I heard Dean Graziosi say something like this: Imagine you're dead and you find out there is a "superior being" and She says to you, "Hey, how did you make out? Did you live a GREAT life?" and you respond that your life was OK, good even, but mostly just OK. And She asks why you didn't make it GREAT. You say all kinds of things like, "I was single so I never bought my own home and suffered financially the rest of my life....or.....I didn't think I could or should break tradition and do things I wanted to do....or....I didn't allow myself to dream of things I really wanted to do, so I did the things I was obligated to do, or what was expected of me." (fill in the blanks yourself here) So, She shakes her head and laments, "I created you, I put you on earth, I gave you free will and a brain that was the best in the animal kingdom and you squandered it! You blew your chance! And that's all there was for you."
Imagine how you would feel. Don't let that happen to you. Let's start living your GREAT life. Reach out to me, sign up for news on www.homeworthybook.com and let's get you into the right frame of mind to bust all of those weak objections that seem so strong. Come on, I'm waiting to do this with you.
Do it now!
So many people live their lives trying to please everyone else. Sometimes it's just one person we become obsessed with pleasing, like a parent who doesn't show enough affection or approval, or that guy that won't commit. Other times we are afraid to say "no" to others because we are afraid of what they will think of us. Oprah refers to this as the Disease to Please. I know this disease, but I'm proud to say that one fine day I decided it was time to say "no" even though it meant that I would disappoint others.
That day is the day I decided to leave a bad marriage. I was young, in debt and terribly unhappy. No one had ever coached me to know that I deserved to be happy...heck, happiness wasn't on the list of things that girls of my generation could expect, let alone insist upon. Yet, somehow I found the courage I needed to leave, against everyone's wishes and expectations and I've never looked back. That was 1992.
Getting to the point where I had enough courage and wisdom to choose happiness over tradition was no easy road. It's not easy to break tradition, to disappoint people close to you all in the name of your own happiness but I had envisioned my future and I knew that my life would continue to be miserable if I didn't make a move. Some little voice told me that I deserved better. When I left I had a mortgage that was bigger than the resale value of house and my ex wasn't helping me pay for it. I was broke. From the outside it looked like I had made a big mistake but from the inside I knew that no matter what, despite the fact that I was broke I was better off alone.
Everything I had learned about women's roles in a marriage, in a family and in society came crumbling down. It was awesome! This dissolution of old beliefs allowed me to redefine who I was and who I could become. It was the best thing I ever could have done for myself.
You can read more about my false beliefs, how I got them and how I change them (I use present tense because it's ongoing) and how you can identify your own false beliefs in my new book Home Worthy. I'm looking forward to a Spring 2020 release.
Post your questions and comments please! I'd love to know what your false beliefs are and learn about your success in overcoming them.
In Canada, about 20- 25% of buyers are single women… only 10% of buyers are single men.